Oct - 2006

Response to a dear friend's relationship.

I think that is great...and an apology hopefully came from her as well. She needs to realize that her reality is never as it seems and that in order for her to be happy she has to stop expecting happiness to come from someone else. Sadly enough too many people live their lives in a cloud of ignorance and searching for the RIGHT people to MAKE them happy. You are her daughter, she is your mother, that is the karma of this life for you two...we need to learn why we came into this world from our upbringing and use that as a catalyst for a better future.
I would obviously not change anything in my life, because I made this happen and the members of my family are facilitators...we need to use them as to empower us...and in return empower them. I know now at my age and where I am in life that when I die there should be a party...I lived the best I could, tried not to hurt anyone in my journey to happiness, and loved the way I lived and all the people that became and are a part of it.
The world is a lovely place when we give in to the Divine cause, answer to our intuition, and revoke fear from where we sit...LOVE is the answer...and your apology had that intention in it...love, forgive, forget, be in the moment and be the best person you can be without the gossip of others and speak clear with intention from the heart.